As I was saying, too much of something is catastrophic. You might have witnessed scenarios where individuals lost their mind after over indulging in their guilty pleasure. If you like, you can equate dating to a guilty pleasure we all indulge in.
Cases of men dumping and ghosting women whom they have dated for 10 years and tying the knot with a damsel they met at Mama Mboga are becoming serial. The same applied to the jilted feelings that arise when noble men labor to take someone’s daughter through college only to be dropped like hot potato in favor of a learned brother.
The aforementioned situations not only strip one of their self-esteem, but it opens a Pandora’s Box into a series of unanswered questions. I do know girls we have a tendency of blaming a shameful dumping on trivial matters like the size of the behind and badly drawn eyebrows!
However what we don’t realize is that over dating is not healthy for your soul, body and persona. While it’s cute in all metrics to learn and understand your partner, investing a whole decade into knowing them will become a turnoff.
It gives you a reason to open your partner’s dark past and start building controversy theories on why they shouldn’t be hitched to you. A chance to know all the negative aspects will quickly cloud the positive ones leaving you high, single and frustrated. The positive aspects lined with weaknesses are a wow factor for a couple who just met.
That’s why men dive right in to marry that girl who they just met while they are still intoxicated in love and spend the rest of their life trying to understand each other.
